"بهترین پاسخ به انتقاد لبخند زدن و فراموش کردن است"

Criticism can sting, no doubt about it. When someone points out your faults or shortcomings, it’s easy to let it ruin your day—or even your week. The core idea here is simple: Don’t let criticism get under your skin. Smile, acknowledge it, then move on with your life.

Why was this advice given? Well, think about it. Throughout history, anyone who’s ever done anything worthwhile has faced criticism. Inventors, artists, leaders—they all had naysayers. This advice helps you keep things in perspective and not let negativity hold you back. It’s about resilience and focusing on what really matters.

Let’s bring in a real-life example. Take Walt Disney, for instance. Early in his career, he was fired by a newspaper editor who said he "lacked imagination and had no good ideas." Can you believe that? Instead of letting this critique shatter him, Disney smiled, forgot about it, and went on to create one of the most imaginative and successful entertainment empires in the world. If he'd obsessively dwelled on that criticism, we might have never enjoyed Mickey Mouse or Disney World.

Now, how can *you* apply this wisdom in your daily life? First, recognize that criticism often says more about the critic than about you. People project their insecurities and limitations onto others. When someone criticizes you, take a moment to smile. It’s a small act of defiance that shows you’re strong enough to not let it faze you. Then, forget it. Focus on what you’re doing well and keep pushing forward.

Imagine this scenario: You’ve been working hard on a project at work. You’re really proud of what you’ve accomplished. But then, in a meeting, your boss points out a few mistakes rather bluntly. It stings, right? Instead of letting that criticism ruin your day, smile. Literally. It might feel awkward at first, but just do it. Then, mentally file that criticism away. Learn what you can from it, if there’s anything useful, then let it go. Don’t let it eat at you.

Picture yourself sitting in a café. You’re with a friend, chatting about your latest creative endeavor—maybe you're writing a book. Your friend tries to be helpful but ends up saying, “I don’t think that’s a very good idea. Are you sure you want to do that?” Your heart might sink a bit. But here’s where you put the advice to work. You smile, sip your coffee, and change the subject. Later, when you’re by yourself, you forget about that comment. You keep writing because you believe in your idea. You don't let one opinion derail your passion.

Remember, criticism is inevitable. But it doesn’t have to control you. Keep smiling, keep forgetting the negativity, and keep moving forward. The world needs what you’ve got to offer, and no critic can take that away from you unless you let them.

So next time someone critiques you, smile. Forget. And carry on doing your thing. You’ve got this.