"He descubierto que el tiempo puede curar casi todo y es posible que encuentres quién se supone que debes ser."

When we think about the passage of time, it’s often said that time has a way of smoothing out the rough edges of our lives. The core message is straightforward: time has an almost magical ability to help us recover from painful experiences and, in doing so, we often discover our true selves. It’s like saying, "Hang in there, things will get better, and you'll learn a lot about yourself along the way."

To give a bit of context, imagine someone going through a tough breakup. When you're in the thick of it, it feels like the pain will never end. Every song, every corner of your home, every shared memory pokes at the wound. But, as weeks turn into months, the intensity of that pain dulls. One day, you find yourself laughing again, maybe at a joke a friend tells or a random meme. It's like the clouds parting after a long, dreary storm. That’s time doing its thing.

Take the example of J.K. Rowling, the famed author of the Harry Potter series. Before her success, she faced numerous rejections and lived as a single mother on welfare after a divorce. Her situation seemed bleak. But over time, she wrote the first Harry Potter book, found a publisher, and eventually enjoyed immense success. Time allowed her to heal from her personal struggles and discover who she was meant to be—a beloved author who inspired millions.

So, how can you put this wisdom to use in your life? First, give yourself permission to grieve or feel whatever it is you’re feeling. Don't rush the process. Healing isn't a race. Create a small ritual—maybe journaling or taking a walk every day—to help you process those emotions. Surround yourself with supportive people who uplift you and remind you of your worth. And importantly, be patient with yourself.

Let's bring this home with a more relatable scenario. Picture this: You bombed a big job interview. You were banking on this opportunity, and now you’re left feeling defeated. Initially, you're crushed. You replay the interview in your head, thinking of all the things you could have said differently. It’s all-consuming.

But then, a funny thing happens. Over time, you start to see it differently. Maybe you realize that job wasn’t the right fit for you. You start preparing better for your next opportunity, learning from past mistakes. Perhaps you even discover a new interest or skill in the meantime. Months down the line, you nail another interview and land a job that excites you even more. You look back and think, “Wow, missing out on that first job led me to something better.”

By understanding that time is a healer, you give yourself the grace to grow and adapt. Life has a way of unfolding as it should, even if it doesn’t feel like it in the moment. Keep moving forward, trust the process, and let time do its work.