"I think that you might be so sure that you're one in a million, that sometimes you forget that out there you're just one in 11."

Sometimes, we get caught up in thinking we're unique—special snowflakes in a world of ordinary people. It's easy to believe that our talents, quirks, or perspective make us one in a million. But what if that belief blinds us to the fact that in some situations, we're just one in eleven?

This idea is a gentle reminder to stay humble. Sure, we might have unique qualities, but there are times when we need to recognize that others around us are just as capable, just as special. It's like a reality check, encouraging us to see ourselves as part of a team or community, not always the standout star.

Imagine a high school basketball team. There's one player who's convinced he's the best—think of him as the "one in a million" guy. He plays for himself, goes for the flashy shots, and disregards his teammates. He’s so wrapped up in his own talent that he forgets basketball is a team sport. When they lose games, he can't understand why. He's talented, after all. But if he took a step back, he might see that his tunnel vision is the problem. He’s so focused on being the hero that he’s forgotten basketball is about working together.

So, how do you apply this in real life? Start by embracing teamwork, whether it’s at work, school, or even in your social circles. Don’t just assume you're the smartest person in the room. Listen actively, consider other people's ideas, and understand that everyone brings something valuable to the table. This isn’t about diminishing your self-worth. It's about understanding that collaboration often brings out the best in everyone, including you.

Think about a project at work. You're confident—maybe even overconfident—that you have the best solution. Pause for a moment. Instead of pushing your idea, open the floor to your colleagues. Encourage them to share their thoughts. What you'll likely discover is that blending ideas can lead to a more robust, creative solution than you had originally imagined.

Here’s a relatable story. Picture a family vacation planning session. You’re the one who’s always organized the trips, and you’re convinced your itinerary-making skills are unparalleled. But this time, your sibling suggests a different destination or a new way to travel. Initially, you might resist—after all, you’re the “expert.” But what if you take a breath and really listen? Their idea turns out to be fantastic. Maybe it’s a destination you overlooked, or an activity you never considered. The trip becomes a hit, and everyone has a blast. You realize that, hey, you’re not the only one with great ideas.

In a nutshell, don’t let the belief that you’re one in a million make you forget that in certain settings, you’re just one in eleven. That’s not a bad thing. It's a reminder to stay grounded, value others, and recognize the power of collective effort. So next time you feel like the star of the show, take a moment to appreciate the ensemble. You might be surprised at how much more you can achieve together.