"هیچ چیز خوب تمام نمی‌شود. به همین دلیل تمام می‌شود"

When we think about endings, it's not uncommon to wish they were wrapped up in a neat, tidy bow. But let's be real—life’s not like the movies. The core idea here is that things end because they’re no longer working, fulfilling, or providing the happiness they once did. They end because they need to, because holding on might do more harm than good.

Take relationships, for example. When a romantic relationship comes to a close, it’s usually because the couple has exhausted their emotional resources. They've tried, fought, and eventually realized that parting ways is the healthiest option. This was true for my friend Sarah. She was with her partner for five years, during which they had beautiful moments. But as time went by, they started arguing more, feeling disconnected, and ultimately, they weren’t the best versions of themselves together. It was painful, but the end wasn’t nice—because it needed to end for both of them to find peace and happiness elsewhere.

Now let's zoom out to a historical context. Consider the fall of the Berlin Wall in 1989. It wasn't a nice ending—it was a turbulent, dramatic conclusion to decades of division and hardship. The wall fell because the status quo had become unbearable, the tension unsustainable. That ending was a necessary catalyst for the reunification and healing that would follow. It was messy, but ultimately essential for progress.

So, how can we apply this wisdom in our lives? First, recognize that endings are a natural part of life's cycle. Accept that they're rarely going to be clean or easy. If you're in a job that's making you miserable, a relationship that’s emotionally draining, or a situation that's toxic—face the inevitable. Don't cling to the hope that things will magically resolve. Sometimes, letting go is the bravest and smartest thing you can do.

Imagine you’re working a job you once loved. You felt fulfilled, appreciated, and excited to go to work every day. But lately, the passion has dried up, and you find yourself dreading Monday mornings. You’re exhausted, burnt out, and no longer feel the spark. It’s a tough pill to swallow, but accepting that this job might need to end can open doors to new opportunities and a fresh start—ones you may not be able to see while stuck in your current unhappy situation.

Picture this relatable scenario: You’ve been trying to stick it out with a friend who’s become increasingly negative and draining. You’ve had countless conversations, tried to support them, and offered solutions. But it’s becoming clear that they’re not willing to change, and their negativity is starting to affect your own mental health. Deciding to step back and end the friendship isn’t nice—it’s painful and messy. But it’s necessary for your own well-being.

So, next time you’re grappling with the end of something—whether a job, a relationship, or even a chapter in your life—remember, it’s ending because it needs to. Embrace the discomfort and trust that endings pave the way for new beginnings. Life’s messiness is where growth happens. And sometimes, the best way to start something new is to end what’s no longer serving you.