"طاقتك تجذب قبيلتك"

The core idea of this saying is pretty simple: the kind of energy and attitude you put out into the world will determine the sort of people you attract into your life. If you’re positive, authentic, and passionate, you’re likely to draw in similar folks. On the flip side, if you’re negative or inauthentic, well, you get the picture.

This phrase has roots in the belief that like attracts like. Think back to the 1960s and 1970s, when the counterculture movement was in full swing. People who shared the same ideals and values naturally formed tight-knit groups. They were drawn together by a shared vibe—a shared sense of purpose and energy, whether it was peace, love, or social change.

Now, let’s paint a picture here. Imagine you're at a local coffee shop. You’ve started a new hobby—let's say, painting. You’re passionate about it, and it shows in the way you talk, the excitement in your eyes. One afternoon, you strike up a conversation with the barista, who happens to be an artist too. Before you know it, you’ve connected with not just the barista but also a group of local artists who meet every weekend to share their work and ideas. Why did this happen? Because of the vibe you put out. Your enthusiasm and authenticity about your new hobby naturally drew in people with the same interests and passion.

So, how can you use this wisdom in your own life? Start with self-awareness. Pay attention to the energy you're projecting. Are you being true to yourself? Are you letting your passions and values shine through? If you want to attract positive, like-minded people, you need to be that positive, authentic person first. It’s like setting a beacon for your tribe to find you.

Here’s a relatable story to drive this home. Picture Jane. She’s always loved hiking but never found the time for it. One day, she decides to join a local hiking club she found online. At first, she’s nervous, unsure if she’ll fit in. But she just goes for it. Jane shows up to the first hike, and she’s all in—excited, friendly, and genuinely interested in the other hikers’ stories. She’s not trying to be someone she’s not; she’s just being Jane. Over time, she forms deep connections with several members, people who share her love for the outdoors and her positive outlook on life. They become more than just fellow hikers—they become friends.

Jane’s story shows how being true to yourself can attract the right people into your life. If you’re authentic and passionate, your tribe will find you. It’s about putting out the right vibe and trusting that the right people will be drawn to it.

So next time you're in a new situation, think about what vibe you’re giving off. Are you open and positive? Authentic and passionate? That’s what will attract your tribe. It’s not about faking it or trying to be someone you’re not. It’s about being the best version of yourself and letting that energy draw in the people who are meant to be in your life.