"آنهایی که خواسته‌هایشان را مهار می‌کنند به این دلیل است که خواسته‌هایشان به اندازه کافی ضعیف است که مهار می‌شود"

Desires are powerful forces within us. When we manage to hold them back, it often means they weren’t as strong as we might have thought. Simple, right? Our deepest, most burning desires are hard to control because they fuel our decisions and actions. If you can easily suppress a desire, it likely wasn’t that intense to begin with.

Historically, this idea echoes through various philosophies and cultures. Take the 19th-century poet William Blake, for instance. He explored human desires and their inherent power. Blake believed that unfulfilled desires could lead to frustration and stagnation, while acting on our passions could drive progress and creativity. His words reflect a time when society was beginning to grapple with the balance between passion and restraint, and the consequences of both.

Picture this: Jane has always dreamt of running her own bakery. She loves baking—it's her passion. Every time she steps into her kitchen, she feels alive. She decides to open a small bakery, but the road is tough. There are financial risks, long hours, and the possibility of failure. Despite all this, she presses on because her desire is so strong it can’t be held back. She doesn't restrain her dream; it propels her forward. Eventually, Jane’s bakery becomes a beloved part of the community, all because she couldn't hold back her desire.

So, how do you apply this wisdom in your life? First, identify your true desires. What’s that one thing you can’t stop thinking about, that excites you beyond reason? Once you know, don't be afraid to pursue it. If you feel an overwhelming urge to create, build, or explore, let that desire guide you. Sure, there will be challenges, but if your desire is strong, you’ll find a way.

Now, let’s make it relatable with a scenario. Imagine you're sitting in your living room, scrolling through social media. You see a friend’s post about their recent backpacking trip across Europe. A wave of envy washes over you. You’ve always wanted to travel, to see the world and experience new cultures. But then, you think about your job, your responsibilities, the risks. You tell yourself it’s too much to handle right now. Your desire dims, and you put it off.

But what if your desire was stronger? What if you couldn’t stop thinking about that trip? You'd start saving, planning, maybe even find a way to work remotely. Before you know it, you’re on a plane, backpack strapped on, ready to explore. That’s the difference a strong desire makes. It doesn’t get restrained—it drives action.

Sometimes we hesitate because we overthink or fear failure. But if your desire is strong enough, it will find a way. Trust in that. Don’t let the flame of your passion dwindle because of doubt or fear. Chase it, nurture it, and let it lead you to places you’ve only dreamt of.

So, next time you feel that tug at your heart, that pull towards something, don’t ignore it. Think about what it means. If it’s strong enough, it won’t be easily restrained. And maybe, just maybe, it’s worth pursuing with everything you’ve got.