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"The difference between passion and addiction is that between a divine spark and a flame that incinerates"

Gabor Mate
Gabor Mate Physician
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Passion and addiction might seem similar at first glance, but they couldn’t be more different. Think of passion as that spark of divine inspiration that lights you up, making you feel alive and motivated. Addiction, on the other hand, is a consuming fire, burning through your life, ultimately leaving destruction in its wake.

So, let's break it down. Passion is something that energizes you, brings you joy, and adds meaning to your life. It’s that thing you can’t wait to do, the hobby or activity that feels like it’s part of your very soul. Addiction, though, is a relentless craving. It’s when you’re driven to pursue something to the point where it negatively impacts other areas of your life.

You ever hear of Vincent van Gogh? The guy was practically the poster child for passion. His love for painting was so intense that, despite facing constant rejection and battling mental illness, he produced over 2,000 artworks. His passion was his lifeline, giving him purpose and a way to express his emotions. Sure, he had his demons, but his art was a divine spark that never fully went out.

Now, on the flip side, think of someone who was addicted to something destructive—say, a gambling addiction. This isn’t just a weekend in Vegas gone a bit wild; it’s a situation where someone pours all their money and time into gambling, to the point where they lose their home, relationships, and self-respect. It starts as an exciting flame but eventually grows out of control, burning everything in its path.

Let’s get practical. Say you love writing. You spend hours crafting stories, and it’s what you think about when you wake up and before you go to bed. You’re passionate. To make sure this remains a healthy passion and not an addiction, keep balance in your life. Make sure you’re not neglecting family, friends, or your health. Check in with yourself regularly: Are you still enjoying writing or does it feel like an obligation? Are you sacrificing too much for it?

Imagine you’re talking to your best friend over coffee. They tell you they’ve started a new hobby—let’s say, they’re super into knitting. At first, it’s all they talk about. They’re making scarves, sweaters, even those cute little amigurumi animals. But then you notice they’re canceling plans to stay home and knit. They’re losing sleep, their work’s suffering, and they seem stressed. It’d be time to have a heart-to-heart, right? Suggest they take a break, mix things up a bit. Remind them that a passion should enrich their life, not take over it.

In a nutshell, passion adds to who you are and makes your life fuller. Addiction diminishes you, stripping away the joy and leaving you hollow. Keep an eye on your loves and hobbies. Nurture them, but don’t let them consume you. Balance, as always, is the secret ingredient.

So next time you find yourself engulfed in something, think: Is this a divine spark lighting my path, or a flame that’s starting to incinerate everything around me? Keep that spark alive—but don’t let it burn you down.
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