"Je vieillis mais je ne grandis pas"

The essence of this idea is quite simple: while our bodies age and the years accumulate, our spirits can remain youthful, curious, and enthusiastic. Growing older is inevitable—time marches on for everyone—but maintaining a youthful mindset is a choice. This quote encourages us to keep our sense of wonder, playfulness, and passion alive despite the passing years.

Historically, this sentiment has resonated in various cultures and eras. Think about Peter Pan, the boy who never grew up, a symbol of eternal childhood and the joy that comes with it. Similarly, this idea is woven into the fabric of modern pop culture. Jimmy Buffett’s song “I’m Growing Older But Not Up” epitomizes this mindset. Written as Buffett reflected on life’s inevitable march forward, he contrasted the unavoidable physical and chronological changes with the possibility of preserving one's youthful zest for life.

Imagine this: there’s a man named Mike. He’s in his 60s, but you wouldn’t know it by his energy and enthusiasm. Every Saturday morning, you can find him at the local skatepark, helmet on, skateboard underfoot. He’s not the best skater there—far from it—but his sheer joy in the activity is contagious. Mike’s a living example of the idea that while he’s getting older, he’s definitely not growing up. His bones might creak a bit more these days, but his spirit is as lively and carefree as ever.

So, how do you apply this wisdom in your life? Start by identifying what makes you feel alive. It could be a hobby you loved as a child but abandoned as you grew older. Pick it up again. Don’t worry about what people will think—embrace activities that bring you joy. Also, surround yourself with things and people that inspire you to stay curious and playful. Age is just a number; your mindset shapes your experience far more than the years you’ve lived.

Let me share a story with you. I have a friend named Sarah. She's in her mid-40s and works a demanding corporate job. But she’s also an avid cosplayer. Every year, she attends comic conventions, dressed in elaborate costumes she’s spent months creating. Initially, her colleagues were puzzled—some even judgmental about her “childish” hobby. But Sarah didn’t let that deter her. She continued crafting and cosplaying with a passion. Over time, her peers began to admire her dedication and enthusiasm. Now, Sarah is the go-to person in her office for anything creative, and she’s happier than ever because she never let go of what made her feel young and free.

In the end, think about what keeps your spirit young. Rekindle that flame, and don’t let societal expectations dim it. It’s about balance—acknowledging that while we grow older physically, our hearts and minds can stay as vibrant as we allow them to be. So, find your skateboard, your cosplay, your magic, and hold onto it. Embrace growing older without ever fully growing up.