"在悲伤中扯头发是愚蠢的,因为好像秃头会减少悲伤。"
— Marcus Tullius Cicero
Simplified Meaning:
When someone is upset and they react by doing something extreme, like pulling their hair out, it doesn't actually help solve the problem that is making them sad. Imagine you are very sad because you lost something important to you, like a favorite toy. If you start crying loudly and hitting the walls, it doesn’t bring back the toy or make you feel better in the long run. This quote is saying that when you face a problem, it’s better to find a calm way to deal with your feelings. So, instead of hurting yourself or making things worse, you could talk to someone you trust to help you feel better or think of a plan to fix the problem. The advice here is to control your reaction to sadness and try to focus on finding a solution or getting support.