"سوف يكون هناك دائمًا في حياتك أشخاص يخبرونك أنك لست جيدًا بما فيه الكفاية. ربما يكونون غيورين. ربما يعتقدون أنك لست كذلك. ربما مروا بيوم سيء. ولكن في النهاية عليك أن تؤمن بنفسك."

There’s a truth we all face at some point: people are going to criticize you. They’ll say you’re not good enough, and the reasons why can vary. Sometimes it’s jealousy, other times it’s their own insecurities spilling over, or maybe they’re just having a rough time. But here’s the kicker—what really matters is how you see yourself.

Think about it like this: when you’re confident in what you do, those negative voices can’t shake you. Sure, they might sting a bit, but they don’t throw you off your path. It’s all about that inner belief. Picture a musician who’s been told they’re too unconventional. They could let that doubt fester, or they could keep refining their unique sound until they find their audience. History is full of examples where persistence in self-belief paid off.

Take J.K. Rowling, for example. Before she became the celebrated author of the Harry Potter series, she faced numerous rejections from publishers. They told her no, over and over again. Imagine if she’d let that stop her. But she didn’t. She believed in her story and in her ability to tell it. That belief kept her pushing forward until finally, she found a publisher who saw what she did. Now, her books have inspired millions worldwide.

So, when you hear those voices telling you you’re not good enough, what should you do? First, consider the source. Why are they saying it? Is it constructive criticism you can learn from, or is it just noise? Then, focus on what you believe about yourself. Strengthen that inner voice. Think about your past achievements, your hard work, your passion. Use that as your foundation.

Imagine you’re starting a new job, and you’re doing your best, but a co-worker keeps undermining you. They make snide comments, dismiss your ideas, and generally try to make you feel small. It’s frustrating, right? But rather than letting that person shake your confidence, lean into what you know you’re good at. Maybe you’re great at problem-solving or have a knack for connecting with clients. Highlight those strengths. Keep performing well, and let your work speak for itself. Over time, people will recognize your value—usually, even the skeptics.

Here’s a personal story to bring it home. Back in high school, I was passionate about art. I spent hours sketching, painting, and experimenting with different mediums. One day, an art teacher critiqued my work harshly, saying I didn’t have the talent to make it. It crushed me. But then I thought about how much I loved creating and how it made me feel. I decided to keep going, refining my skills and learning from the feedback. Years later, not only did I win several local art competitions, but I also sold my work. The teacher’s words didn’t define me—my belief in myself did.

So, next time someone tells you you’re not good enough, remember this: their words aren’t the final say. You hold that power. Believe in yourself, even when it’s tough. Keep pushing forward. Because at the end of the day, it’s your belief that will carry you through.