"If we choose, we can live in a world of comforting illusion."

The core idea here is that we have the option to deceive ourselves into believing things that make us feel good, rather than facing the sometimes harsh reality. It’s like having a cozy blanket to hide under when the storm’s raging outside. We can choose to live in a bubble where everything aligns with our wishes and desires, even if it’s not true.

Think about this in historical context. During the times of Galileo, he presented evidence that the Earth revolves around the Sun. This was a time when the comforting illusion was that Earth was the center of the universe—a belief that gave humans a sense of importance and security. Many chose to cling to this illusion rather than accepting the uncomfortable truth of a vast universe where Earth was just a speck. They were living in a world of comforting illusion.

Now, let’s bring it closer to home with a real-life example. Imagine a person who’s in a toxic relationship. They might choose to believe that their partner truly loves them and that the bad times are just temporary. This belief is much more comforting than acknowledging that maybe the relationship is harmful and it’s time to move on. So, they stay, wrapped in the illusion that things will get better, even if all evidence points to the contrary.

How can we apply this wisdom in our own lives? Start by practicing self-awareness. When you find yourself clinging to a belief, ask yourself—why do I believe this? Is it because it’s true, or because it’s comforting? Keep a journal where you jot down instances when you notice this happening. Be brutally honest with yourself. Talk to friends or mentors who can offer an outside perspective. Sometimes we’re too close to our own issues to see them clearly.

Let’s paint a relatable scenario. Imagine you’re at a coffee shop with a buddy. You’re talking about career aspirations. Your friend has been working the same job for years, always talking about starting their own business but never actually doing it. They believe they’re just waiting for the “right time.” You know the truth—they’re scared of failing. This “right time” is a comforting illusion that helps them delay taking a risk. You can see through it, and maybe they can too if you gently point it out. “Hey, I think you’re capable of starting that business now. What’s really holding you back?” Sometimes, a nudge from a friend is all it takes to break through the illusion.

So, the next time you find yourself—or someone you care about—nestled in the warmth of a comforting illusion, remember it’s okay to seek the truth, even if it’s hard. Reality might be tough, but it’s the only place where real growth happens. Keep questioning, keep pushing, and don’t be afraid to step out from under that cozy blanket when you need to.