"پیران همه چیز را باور می کنند میانسالان به همه چیز شک می کنند جوانان همه چیز را می دانند"

This quote captures the essence of how our beliefs and attitudes can shift as we grow older. When we're young, we tend to think we have all the answers. We feel invincible, confident, and often a bit arrogant about our knowledge. As we hit middle age, we start questioning things more. We're skeptical because we've seen enough to know that not everything is as it seems. And then, in our later years, we tend to become more trusting again, perhaps because we've seen enough to realize that worrying too much isn't worth it.

Imagine a teenager, full of confidence and certainty. They might think they know the best career path, the secrets to happiness, or the ultimate truth about life. They haven't faced enough setbacks yet to doubt their beliefs. Fast forward a couple of decades, and this teenager is now in their forties. They're more cautious, less likely to take things at face value. They've been disappointed, misled, or surprised enough times to understand that life is complex and unpredictable. Finally, picture this person in their seventies. They've come full circle in a sense. More willing to take things as they come, they're less likely to question every detail. They trust a bit more because they've realized that life's too short for constant skepticism.

Take, for example, the story of my uncle, Jim. When he was young, Jim was adamant about becoming a successful entrepreneur. He was sure he knew the secret to building a great business and making a fortune. But in his thirties, after a couple of failed ventures, he became more cautious. He started questioning every new idea and became much more critical of potential business partners. By the time he reached his sixties, Jim had mellowed out. He wasn’t as suspicious anymore and was more open to new ideas without the intense scrutiny he had in his middle years. This shift made his later years more peaceful and enjoyable.

So, how can you apply this wisdom? First, recognize where you are in your journey. If you're young, try to remain open to advice and the possibility that you might not know everything. If you're middle-aged, balance your skepticism with open-mindedness. Don’t let past disappointments make you cynical. And if you're older, embrace your experiences but stay curious. Trust, but don’t be naïve.

I remember a conversation with a friend, Emily, who struggled with this balance. In her twenties, she was so sure of her worldview that she wouldn't listen to anyone else. In her forties, after a tough divorce and career change, she questioned every decision. Now, in her fifties, she's learning to trust herself again. She’s found a sweet spot between youthful certainty and middle-aged skepticism. Watching her navigate this journey has been eye-opening. It’s a reminder that we all evolve, and our beliefs and attitudes should grow with us.

So next time you find yourself feeling like you know it all, or doubting everything, take a step back. Think about where you are in your life. Use this wisdom to navigate your path, and remember that growth means change—embrace it.