"恋爱中的人很疯狂。"

Love makes us do wild things. It’s like when you’re head over heels for someone, your brain flips a switch, and suddenly you’re not thinking straight. Emotions take the wheel and rational thoughts get shoved to the back seat. You’ve probably seen it happen—maybe even to yourself.

The saying "one is very crazy when in love" captures this perfectly. When you're deeply in love, your actions might not always make sense. Your heart races, your thoughts get jumbled, and sometimes you act impulsively. This isn’t a new idea either; it's been around as long as love itself. Think about the poets and writers of old who were always waxing lyrical about the madness of love.

Remember the story of Romeo and Juliet? Shakespeare’s tale is a classic example of love’s insanity. These two teenagers fell so hard for each other that they were ready to defy their families, their society, and even fate. They met, fell in love, and decided to marry almost immediately. Then, rather than living without each other, they chose to die. Extreme, right? But that’s love for you. It makes you do things you’d never consider otherwise.

So how can you apply this wisdom? First, recognize that being in love can cloud your judgment. When you’re infatuated, you might overlook red flags or make hasty decisions. It’s okay to feel all the feels, but keep your feet on the ground. Stay connected to your friends and family—they’re your reality check when you’re floating on cloud nine. They can help you see clearly when your vision is blurred by love.

Imagine your best friend Sarah. She’s just started dating this new guy, Mark. She’s completely smitten and is talking about moving in with him after just a few weeks. You’re supportive, but you’re also a bit concerned. You know love is making her a little crazy. You sit down with her over coffee and gently remind her to take things slowly, to get to know Mark better before making such a big leap. She might not want to hear it, but she needs that perspective.

We’ve all been there in some form or another. When I was in college, I had a whirlwind romance with a guy I met in my literature class. Within a month, we decided to take a spontaneous road trip across the country. We were so wrapped up in each other that we didn’t think about the logistics—no plan, no money set aside, just pure, unadulterated love-driven madness. It was fun, chaotic, and ultimately unsustainable. But looking back, it’s a reminder of just how powerful love can be.

In a nutshell, love is exhilarating and wonderful, but it can also make us a little crazy. Embrace the feelings, but don't lose yourself in them. Balance that passion with a bit of prudence. Remember, while your heart is racing, keep your head steady.