"عشق به خطاها همیشه کور است"

Loving someone means accepting them completely, flaws and all. This quote is telling us that when we truly love someone, we often don’t see—or we choose not to see—their faults. Our affection can make us blind to their imperfections. This can be a beautiful thing, but it can also lead us to overlook things that might be important to address.

Historically, this notion has been around forever. Think about famous love stories like Romeo and Juliet. Their love was so intense that they chose each other over their families, ignoring the dangers and conflicts that came with their union. They were blind to the consequences because their love overshadowed everything else.

Let me give you a real-life example. Imagine your best friend has just started dating someone new. You can see some red flags—maybe this new person is a bit controlling or doesn’t treat your friend with the respect they deserve. But your friend is head over heels. They only see the good: “They’re so sweet and always buy me flowers!” Your friend is blind to the faults because they’re in love. They don’t see the controlling behavior because they’re focused on the flowers and the sweet gestures.

So, how can we take this wisdom and use it? Well, it’s all about balance. Love doesn’t mean ignoring faults or pretending they don’t exist. It’s about recognizing them, understanding them, and deciding if you can live with them. If you’re in a relationship, take the time to step back and look at it objectively every now and then. Ask yourself: am I overlooking something that could become a bigger issue later on?

Here's a relatable scenario. Think about your relationship with a family member—maybe your sibling. You love them unconditionally, right? But they’ve got these annoying habits. They borrow your stuff without asking, or they’re always late. You could let these things drive you crazy. Or, you could recognize that these faults are part of who they are and decide they don’t outweigh the love you have for them. Your love makes you blind to these little annoyances because, in the grand scheme of things, they don’t matter.

But what happens when it’s not just small faults? What if it’s something bigger? That’s when you need to really evaluate the situation. Love should never mean compromising your values or your well-being. Sometimes, seeing the faults clearly is the best thing you can do—for both of you. If you’re constantly making excuses for someone’s bad behavior, it might be time to reassess.

In the end, loving someone means accepting them as a whole person, faults and all. But it also means being honest with yourself about what you can accept. Love is powerful, but it’s not about turning a blind eye. It’s about seeing clearly and loving deeply anyway. Think of it like this: when you’re looking at a beautiful painting, you don’t focus on the tiny flaws. You see the whole picture, and you love it for what it is. But if there’s a big tear in the canvas, you can’t ignore it. You’ve got to decide if it’s something you can fix or if it’s going to ruin the painting for you.