"我们创造了自己的不幸福。痛苦的目的是帮助我们理解我们是造成痛苦的人。"
— Willie Nelson
Simplified Meaning:
Sometimes, the problems and sadness we experience come from our own actions and thoughts. Imagine a person who keeps focusing on negative things in their life, like a small mistake at work or a fight with a friend. By thinking about these bad moments over and over, they make their own sadness bigger. For example, if someone constantly worries about not being good enough, they might avoid trying new things out of fear. This behavior leads to missed opportunities and more frustration. The idea is that when we understand our role in our suffering, we can change how we react or think, which can lead to more happiness. Instead of feeling like a victim of circumstances, realizing that our inner thoughts often shape our reality allows us to take control and make changes for a better life.
